Stargirl parents guide

Stargirl Parent Guide

Streaming on Disney+: Great messages about self esteem can get lost in a movie that fails to give its female hero any kind of character depth.

Overall B+

A socially withdrawn young teen meets a girl whose exuberant embrace of her own uniqueness changes his life.

Violence A
Sexual Content A
Profanity A
Substance Use A-

Why is Stargirl rated PG? The MPAA rated Stargirl PG for mild thematic elements

Run Time: 107 minutes

Parent Movie Review

After his father’s death, Leo Borlock (Graham Verchere) and his mom (Darby Stanchfield) move to Mica, Arizona for a fresh start. Following a traumatic bullying incident, Leo decides that it is easier to blend in with the crowd and not draw any attention to himself. On his sixteenth birthday he meets Stargirl Caraway (Grace VanderWaal), a quirky girl who is unapologetically herself. As they get to know each other, Leo learns what it means to be yourself and not care what other people think of you.

Stargirl is based on a bestselling novel of the same name by Jerry Spinelli published in 2000. I have not personally read it, but I do remember it being popular when I was in elementary school, which shows how long ago that was. Though the movie adaptation does try to modernize in some ways, it still feels its age. I doubt that today’s teens will be able to relate fully to the characters and situations, as high school has changed dramatically in the last two decades. Much of the plot is unrealistic and the teenage characters make choices and interact in ways that don’t feel authentic.

One element that has really not aged well is the character Stargirl. She is the epitome of the manic pixie dream girl. Everything she does and says is quirky but also aloof. She is always the wisest person in the room, and acts like the fact that she stands out makes her better than everyone else. Her only purpose in the story is to provide character development for Leo and then disappear. There is no hint at her internal life or struggles; she is only what Leo needs her to be, which is perfectly summed up in the song Leo sings at the climax, a cover of “Just What I Needed” by The Cars, which prominently features the lyrics, “I guess you’re just what I needed”.

Despite these complaints, it’s worth noting that the film’s overall theme is figuring out who you are and learning to be ok with standing out from the crowd - which is a message we’re all happy to share with young people. Seeing actual teenagers play teens is also refreshing, instead of the 20-somethings who are often cast in these roles. The musical elements are well done, especially Grace VanderWaal’s singing and ukulele playing.

Overall, Stargirl is a sweet, family-friendly coming of age story, though it does show its age in the depictions of teenagers and especially in its main female lead. It might not shine as brightly as it could, but it does manage the occasional twinkle.

Stargirl is currently streaming on Disney+.

Directed by Julia Hart. Starring Darby Stanchfield, Grace VanderWaal, Gincarlo Esposito. Running time: 107 minutes. Updated

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Rating & Content Info

Why is Stargirl rated PG? Stargirl is rated PG by the MPAA for mild thematic elements

Violence: A football player is injured during a game, no blood shown.
Sexual Content: A teen couple kiss a few times.
Profanity: None.
Alcohol / Drug Use: An adult woman drinks wine at dinner.

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Stargirl Parents' Guide

Stargirl helps an injured football player from the opposing team, even though her classmates get angry at her for it. What would you do in that situation? Should we help people even when they are on a different side than us?

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