Mary parents guide

Mary Parent Guide

Largely non-canonical and surprisingly dark and violent, this is not a great choice for family movie night.

Overall C

Netflix: Mary spends her life evading the dangers posed by the power-crazed King Herod. When she experiences a miraculous pregnancy, the peril deepens.

Release date December 6, 2024

Violence C
Sexual Content B
Profanity A
Substance Use B-

Why is Mary rated PG-13? The MPAA rated Mary PG-13 for language, violence

Run Time: 110 minutes

Parent Movie Review

Her portrait adorns paintings, her statues fill cathedrals, devout souls pray to her, and her name graces churches, hospitals, and schools. But we know little of the life of Mary, the mother of Jesus. With Mary, executive producer (and televangelist) Joel Osteen, writers, and film crew, attempt to give her the backstory that the New Testamentomitted. The film provides plenty of action, drama, and danger, but viewers should be aware that this tale is far from the gospel truth.

There’s a market for what I term “Bible-adjacent” films. These movies might be inspired by a scriptural story or they are set in the approximate time period of a Biblical event and feature non-canonical characters. For the most part, they endeavor to impart Christian messages, but some simply aim for drama. Mary tries to do both. And fails.

The challenge with creating a feature-length film about the life of Mary is that the New Testamentprovides very little detail beyond her faithful submission to the will of God. To fill in the blanks, screenwriter Timothy Michael Hayes bases some of his narrative on the Gospel of James, an apocryphal testament rejected by Christian faiths. Hayes goes all out, giving Mary (Noa Cohen) a miraculous birth story of her own, making her a servant of the temple in Jerusalem, penning a brush with Lucifer (a.k.a. Satan), and throwing in some violent action sequences. Unfortunately, the script doesn’t work. It’s riddled with logical and scriptural inconsistencies – for instance, while the Bible describes Bethlehem’s inns as being full for the census, this tale insists that the city is full because followers of the Messiah have come to await his birth. There’s also a strange scene where Mary and Joseph fight their way free from Herod’s troops, only to bring the baby Jesus to the temple at Jerusalem. The temple visit is scripturally accurate, but in the squirrelly world of the script, it’s a reckless act that makes no sense.

The film is also burdened by its inconsistent cast. Noa Cohen and Ido Tako do a fine job as Mary and Joseph, effectively giving us characters who are courageous, devout, and pure of heart. But Anthony Hopkins delivers what’s easily the worst performance of his career. He seems completely disinterested in the role (or embarrassed by it) and barely manages to stir up a flicker of emotion until the end of the film. I say this with the greatest of respect for a legendary actor, but if this is the best he can do, maybe it’s time to retire.

Throughout this production’s runtime, I couldn’t help but compare it to Journey to Bethlehem, a Nativity musical that debuted in 2023. That was also a mediocre film, but it was mediocre in a cheerful, well-intentioned kind of way. In contrast, Mary often feels brooding and creepy. The angel Gabriel is a morose, tattooed figure with intense, angry eyes who could easily be playing a villain instead of a heavenly messenger. And Lucifer’s appearances in the movie are suitably dark and disturbing. Herod’s troops ride across Judea with the vibe of the Nazgul from the The Lord of the Rings, and there are repeated scenes of violence, torture, child abduction, and death.

Thanks to its violence and disturbing content, Netflix has given Mary a PG-13 rating, which is well deserved. Don’t watch it with little kids. Don’t show it to your Sunday School class. And don’t watch it with anyone who cares about the Christmas story found in the Bible. This isn’t a movie that will fill you with peace and joy; it’s more likely to leave you with feelings of dread and doom. And frankly, I like my Christmases with a lot more light and hope than this movie provides.

Directed by D.J. Caruso. Starring Anthony Hopkins, Noa Cohen, Ido Tako. Running time: 110 minutes. Theatrical release December 6, 2024. Updated

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Rating & Content Info

Why is Mary rated PG-13? Mary is rated PG-13 by the MPAA for language, violence

Violence: A soldier beats a man with a chain. A king orders the murder of his brother-in-law and then fatally stabs his wife. A woman suggests the king kill her husband and put his head on a pike. A king tortures a priest by pressing a spiked crown down his head and blinding him. There are frequent scenes of violence involving swords and bladed weapons. In one, blood spurts from the throat of a stabbed man. A main character dies of a lethal sword wound. A soldier grabs a young girl by the throat and threatens her with a sword.  A soldier deliberately sets a property on fire, leading to the deaths of several people. A man is trapped with flaming nets and his subsequent death is implied. Men have a fistfight and one is later seen unconscious with blood around his head. A mob threatens a young girl and tries to stone her before being fought off by a young man armed with a hammer. A house is seen after it’s been ransacked by a mob. A man punches his son for speaking up to protect someone. A king orders the murder of babies. Soldiers kill babies (off screen) and seize infants from their mothers, bringing them to the palace.
Sexual Content:   An unmarried girl’s pregnancy is a major plot point. There are repeated scenes of women screaming in labor. A young girl is propositioned by a demonic character but she rejects him. A woman is referred to as a “temple whore” and “virgin whore”.
Profanity: None.
Alcohol / Drug Use:   Characters drink wine with meals.

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Mary Parents' Guide

What do you think of this film’s portrayal of Mary’s backstory? Do you think it’s credible? If you were to write a story of Mary’s life, what elements would you include? Which of her character traits would you want to emphasize? How would you do that?

You can read the Biblical accounts of Mary and the birth of Christ at the following links:

Bible Gateway: Luke 1:26-38

Bible Gateway: Luke 2:1-20

Bible Gateway: Matthew 1:18-2:23

If you are interested in the Gospel of James, you can learn more here:

Gospels.net: The Infancy Gospel of James

Wikipedia: The Gospel of James

 

Loved this movie? Try these books…

If you want published stories of Mary for children, you can turn to Tomie de Paola’s Mary, The Mother of Jesus. Marion Thomas brings a distinctive artistic style and an expansive text to her version of The Nativity. In Mary’s First Christmas, written by Walter J. Wangerin, Jesus hears the story of his birth from his mother.

Mary’s impact on other religions, art and culture is examined in Judith Dupre’s Full of Grace: Encountering Mary in Faith, Art, and Life.

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A much better take on Mary, and one which is more faithful to the Biblical narrative, is found in The Nativity Story. Young children will enjoy the animated version of the tale found in The Star.

For a biblically accurate representation (complete with the use of historical languages) you can watch The Christ Child: A Nativity Story. It can be viewed for free here.