The Wonder parents guide

The Wonder Parent Guide

This brooding, atmospheric film skillfully unfolds the dark mystery at its heart but does so with some unnecessary negative content.

Overall C

Netflix: In 1860's Ireland, a family claims that their 11 year old daughter has not eaten in four months. An English nurse is hired to observe her and determine if she's lying or if she really is the recipient of a miracle.

Release date November 16, 2022

Violence C
Sexual Content C-
Profanity C
Substance Use D

Why is The Wonder rated R? The MPAA rated The Wonder R for some sexuality.

Run Time: 103 minutes

Parent Movie Review

Anna O’Donnell (Kila Lord Cassidy) is considered the wonder of her poor Irish village. Four months ago, at the age of 11, Anna stopped eating. She has not starved, but remains bright eyed and rosy cheeked, assuring everyone that she isn’t hungry because she’s fed by “manna from heaven”. Drawn by the prospect of a miracle, visitors come from afar to meet the girl who smiles beatifically upon them, boosting their hope and faith.

Anna’s fast is not without controversy. Although lauded by many, others in the town consider her to be a fraud, being secretly fed by underhanded means. To solve the mystery, a local committee sets up a watch over the girl, to be carried out by a nun and an English nurse. When nurse Elizabeth Wright (Florence Pugh) assumes her task, she is stymied by the sight of a child who will not eat and a family who are prepared to let her starve. When she uncovers the facts of the matter, puzzlement changes to horror and she realizes that desperate measures are necessary to save her young patient…

The Wonder is a dark, brooding film with rare moments of light. It paints a bleak picture of an Irish countryside still traumatized by the Great Famine, which ended a decade prior in the early 1850s, leaving a residue of pain, loss, and bitterness against the English. Irish devotion to Catholicism provides comfort in the face of grief but in this town, it is also distorted into a weapon of fear, leaving a girl on a fatal journey while her family consoles themselves with heavenly rewards. Into this atmosphere, an English nurse is seen as an unwelcome alien whose attempts to uncover the truth are viewed with suspicion, even by those who hired her.

Director Sebastian Lelio deserves credit for so ably creating a movie that is deeply atmospheric. The empty landscape, shabby homes, and ramshackle graveyard provide a convincing backdrop for residents desperately hoping for a genuine miracle. The reliance on firelight and lamplight makes sets feel authentic to the period and the flickering light enhances the elusive nature of the truth.

Key to the film’s success are its lead actresses. Kila Lord Cassidy gives a moving performance as Anna, filled with faith, pain, and steadfast focus on her self-sacrificing journey. Florence Pugh is totally committed to her role, providing Elizabeth Wright with integrity, courage, and professional resolve despite the wounds of her past.

Skillful production aside, The Wonder is a difficult movie to recommend due to some of its content issues. There is a deeply disturbing plot element that I can’t elaborate on lest I spoil the ending. There are also two criminal acts and a sex scene which, despite involving fully clothed parties, provides some detail. Also troubling is repeated drug use on the part of Nurse Wright. In her off hours, the heartbroken young woman blots out her own painful losses by numbing herself with the contents of an unlabeled bottle. It is almost certainly laudanum, a suspension of opium in alcohol that was widely used and completely legal in the Victorian era.

Clearly unsuited for family viewing, The Wonder will find an audience with adult fans of brooding period dramas. The film might not be a wonder, but it is a solid adaptation of the novel on which its based and will effectively transport viewers to a painful period of history.

Directed by Sebastián Lelio. Starring Florence Pugh, Niamh Algar, Ciarán Hinds. Running time: 103 minutes. Theatrical release November 16, 2022. Updated

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Rating & Content Info

Why is The Wonder rated R? The Wonder is rated R by the MPAA for some sexuality.

Violence:   There are frequent mentions of blood in a religious context. A girl loses a bloody tooth. There’s mention of a baby’s death. There is a scene of attempted forced feeding. There is talk of people burning in hell. A person sets a building on fire. A person receives burns in a fire. There are brief mentions of people starving to death in a famine.
Sexual Content:   A man and woman have sex while clothed. There is mention of incest.
Profanity:  There is a single sexual expletive in the film.
Alcohol / Drug Use: A woman repeatedly takes an unknown drug (probably an opiate) from a bottle and goes into a trance where she pricks her finger and licks.

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The Wonder Parents' Guide

Emma Donoghue, the author of the book from which this film was adapted, explains her fascination with the subject at the link below:

Pan MacMillan: Is the Wonder based on a true story? Emma Donoghue on the real women behind the book

What do you think of Elizabeth Wright’s solution to Anna’s suffering? Do you think she was justified in breaking the law? Can you think of other options she might have had?


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