The Secret: Dare to Dream parents guide

The Secret: Dare to Dream Parent Guide

The bright messages in this film have a dark underside.

Overall C+

Digital on Demand: Miranda is widowed and struggling to raise three kids on an inadequate income. Life looks bleak until she meets Bray, whose sunny outlook changes her life.

Release date July 31, 2020

Violence B
Sexual Content A-
Profanity B
Substance Use C+

Why is The Secret: Dare to Dream rated PG? The MPAA rated The Secret: Dare to Dream PG for language and an injury image

Run Time: 107 minutes

Parent Movie Review

“No matter how bad things are they can always get worse.” So says Miranda Wells (Katie Holmes) and events are proving her right. She needs a root canal that she can’t afford. Her roof leaks and a tropical storm is heading to her Louisiana community. And she just rear-ended a truck.

What Miranda doesn’t know is that the other driver is going to change her attitude and her life. Bray Johnson (Josh Lucas) is an engineering professor and ardent believer in the power of positive thinking. As he says, “Anything is possible if you really want it” and “The more you think about something the more you draw it to you.”

I’m not one to argue with optimism: I believe in looking on the bright side, counting my blessings, and working towards a brighter future. But the “power of positive thinking” philosophy peddled in this film has a dark underside. When people are told that their thoughts determine the events in their life, it’s a short trip to victim blaming. Based on this philosophy, Miranda’s life isn’t a mess because she’s widowed with three kids or because she doesn’t earn enough money or because a storm dropped a tree through her roof– it’s a mess because she expects the worst and her negative thoughts magnetically attract complications. Color me cynical, but Miranda needs an affordable benefits plan, a bigger paycheck, and a good night’s sleep more than she needs a total stranger to spout aphorisms at her. When Bray tells her to focus on what she wants instead of what she doesn’t want, I don’t feel inspired or uplifted; I get angry over what feels like patronizing lecturing.

Fortunately, Bray isn’t all talk: he rolls up his sleeves and fixes Miranda’s car and patches her roof. His example of neighborly assistance is really the brightest spot in a movie that’s riddled with deceptively sunny messages. Even the positive thinking message holds more than meets the eye – not only for its victim-blaming tendencies, but because it’s an advertorial for the book series that the movie is based on. This film leans hard into product placement. Besides its dramatization of the books’ messages, it explicitly flogs Apple computer products and Ben and Jerry’s ice cream, which feels a bit tawdry. But in a film based on thinking your way to wealth, who’s going to quibble with a bit of advertising?

Aside from the queasy messaging, The Secret: Dare to Dream has little negative content. In fact, it’s one of the cleanest movies I’ve seen in a long time. With no sexual content, minimal drinking, little violence, and scant profanity, it’s certainly family friendly. But do we really want our kids to learn that they can get anything they want if they think about it hard enough? (The potential for Christmas heartbreak is easy to predict.) Or do we want them to learn to be resilient in the face of reverses and to work towards achieving their goals? It’s no secret that these strategies are better predictors of success and happiness than “daring to dream”.

Directed by Andy Tennant. Starring Katie Holmes, Josh Lucas, Jerry O'Connell. Running time: 107 minutes. Theatrical release July 31, 2020. Updated

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Rating & Content Info

Why is The Secret: Dare to Dream rated PG? The Secret: Dare to Dream is rated PG by the MPAA for language and an injury image

Violence:   Scenes of destruction in a tropical storm: high winds blowing things over and damaging homes. A distracted driver rear ends another vehicle; no injuries. There is a brief scene of injured people after a plane accident. A main character slaps another person.
Sexual Content: There are a few scenes of a man and woman kissing.
Profanity:   There are four minor curse words, two terms of deity, and an anatomical term.
Alcohol / Drug Use:   An adult drinks beer with dinner. A woman drinks a glass of wine while she’s stressed. A man drinks alcohol as he struggles with painful memories

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The Secret: Dare to Dream Parents' Guide

This movie is based on a book franchise by Rhoda Byrne. More about it can be found here:

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Home Video

The most recent home video release of The Secret: Dare to Dream movie is July 31, 2020. Here are some details…