P.S. I Love You parents guide

P.S. I Love You Parent Guide

Overall C+

Holly Kennedy (Hilary Swank) isn't sure what to do with her life when her husband Gerry (Gerard Butler) passes away. Apparently, her loving spouse realized this would be a problem, so he pre-recorded a few messages for Holly, to be delivered after his death. While his thoughtfulness comforts the grieving widow, Holly's mother (Kathy Bates) and friends (Gina Gershon and Lisa Kudrow) fear she'll never find happiness in the future if she keeps hanging onto the past.

Release date December 20, 2007

Violence B
Sexual Content C+
Profanity C-
Substance Use C+

Why is P.S. I Love You rated PG-13? The MPAA rated P.S. I Love You PG-13 for sexual references and brief nudity.

Parent Movie Review

Although dead people show up now and then in the movies, don't expect P.S. I Love You to be a remake of the 1990 film Ghost in which a murdered man tries to communicate with his girlfriend through a psychic. It's true Gerry Kennedy (Gerard Butler) appears on screen following his demise, but only in the imagination of his grieving wife Holly (Hillary Swank).

Before his death, the couple engaged in rather loud and fiery arguments--moments she comes to regret. Yet they also shared a passionate love, one they devoted themselves to despite their families' disapproval and one that proved to be far too brief.

Distraught by her loss, Holly holes up in their apartment and ignores all calls until her friends Denise (Lisa Kudrow), Sharon (Gina Gershon), and John (James Marsters) arrive unannounced to celebrate her 30th birthday. However, the intervention is disrupted by the delivery of a birthday cake from her deceased spouse. Attached to the box is a tape recorder with a message from Gerry, telling her of a series of letters he prepared for her during his illness. Each of them has an assignment to help her through the mourning stages.

The first one arrives by mail and sends her scurrying out the door to buy a new outfit. Already worried about her daughter's fragile mental state, Holly's mom Patricia (Kathy Bates) tries to dissuade her from engaging in activities she worries will prolong the heartache.

Fortunately, the young widow is supported by friends and a budding camaraderie with a socially awkward but sincere bartender named Daniel (Harry Connick Jr.). Having suffered his own unhappiness, he becomes a strong shoulder for Holly to lean on as she works through her remorse and begins to discover her ability to cope.

Yet during her grieving, Holly has periods of reckless behavior when she relies on alcohol for pain relief and later jumps into bed with a stranger she's barely met. Numerous shots of a woman in her underwear and a brief scene with male buttock nudity in a nonsexual situation are also included, along with frequent profanities and vulgar comments about anatomy and sexual relations.

Still this story of love and loss comes with plenty of tender moments and may be the perfect incarnation of the cliche "it's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all." Yet while the screenplay might cause adults to reconsider their relationships, it's likely this affectionate postscript is too mature for most minors.

Starring Hilary Swank, Gerard Butler, Gina Gershon, Lisa Kudrow.. Theatrical release December 20, 2007. Updated

P.S. I Love You
Rating & Content Info

Why is P.S. I Love You rated PG-13? P.S. I Love You is rated PG-13 by the MPAA for sexual references and brief nudity.

Dealing with the loss of her husband, Holly occasionally turns to alcohol, sometimes becoming drunk and vomiting. Other scenes include social drinking at parties and in a bar setting. During a marital spat, a man is hit with thrown objects. An accidental fall results in a bloody face and broken nose. A woman is repeatedly seen in her underwear and male posterior nudity is shown in a nonsexual context. The script includes frequent profanities, sexual orientation comments and discussions of male anatomy along with some crude and vulgar sexual dialogue.

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P.S. I Love You Parents' Guide

What does Daniel mean when he says he would like to be “somebody’s Gerry”? What kind of relationship does he yearn for?

Although Holly admits she was frequently angry with her husband, how does she feel about their arguments after his death? Why does she become involved with the couple fighting over real estate?

Both Holly and her mother experience the loss of a spouse. How are their situations similar? How do they differ? How does Holly learn to deal with her friends’ happiness?

Home Video

The most recent home video release of P.S. I Love You movie is May 5, 2008. Here are some details…

DVD Release Date: 6 May 2008

P.S. I Love You releases to DVD (full frame and widescreen) and Blu-Ray (widescreen), with the following postscripts: additional scenes, a conversation with Cecelia Ahern (author of the novel upon which the movie is based), a featurette (The Name of the Game is Snaps: Learn How to Play), and the music video Same Mistake by James Blunt. Audio tracks are available in Dolby Digital 5.1 Surround (English, French and Spanish), with subtitles in English, French and Spanish.

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Kathy Bates also plays a pragmatic woman worried about the sanity of her neighbor who has just lost his wife in Dragonfly. An aspiring architect moves into an apartment only to find it is still haunted by the previous resident in Just Like Heaven.

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